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Be the Steady Hand

Ernest Hemingway once said: In our darkest moments, we don’t need solutions or advice. What we yearn for is simply human connection—a quiet presence, a gentle touch. These small gestures are the anchors that hold us steady when life feels like too much. Please don’t try to fix me. Don’t take on my pain or push away my shadows. Just sit beside me as I work through my own inner storms. Be the steady hand I can reach for as I find my way. My pain is mine to carry, my battles mine to face. But your presence reminds me I’m not alone in this vast, sometimes frightening world. It’s a quiet reminder that I am worthy of love, even when I feel broken. So, in those dark hours when I lose my way, will you just be here? Not as a rescuer, but as a companion. Hold my hand until the dawn arrives, helping me remember my strength. Your silent support is the most precious gift you can give. It’s a love that helps me remember who I am, even when I forget.

It’s the Feminine That Leads a Relationship

  It’s the feminine that actually leads a relationship (in the subtle)... For anyone who has touched the polarity world You’d know That the masculine leads. That’s what they tell you right It’s up to the man to lead To take charge To have direction And for the feminine For the woman… She is in an unending state of surrender. Just simply waiting for him to know Exactly where they need to go. I think whoever came up with this teaching doesn’t really know much about women at all. It paints a sexy picture... The sweet receptive feminine And the brash confident masculine With their incredible electric polarity The stuff of movies And our wildest erotic fantasies Like all archetypal stories… it’s a myth It’s an ideal that can teach us something But it’s not really real. Anyone who tries to live this to the letter Is in for an unpleasant surprise Because that’s not how relationships actually work... Most women aren’t just waiting around Trusting him to know everything Offering up every bi...

What Every Women Should Understand

  1. Your biggest enemy is yourself. That enemy is the one who makes you overthink, develop a low self-esteem, make you emotionally unstable and give you headache. Love yourself from the inside first before you expect love from the outside. 2. You are not in a relationship with a man until you both clearly state it.  Don't get carried away by the idea of love with a man simply because he spends time with you or treats you special. 3. If you are in a relationship or marriage, demanding your man to spend time with you will not make him do so.  A man willingly spends time with you because you give him peace and he enjoys your company. Attract him the same way you peacefully and warmly attracted him when he was pursuing you. 4. Mr.  Right is the man who offers a conducive environment for you to be the best you. Choose your environment well. 5. Your husband will never find you if you keep fooling around with other women's husbands. 6. Mr.  Right can also hurt you. Th...

An Evolved Man

An evolved man will not try to pry your heart open or penetrate you with his masculine presence in bed or out of it. He will create a space for you to slowly blossom open. He is in no hurry to see what every petal looks like, smells like, tastes like... He needs nothing from you to fill his being so to him, however long it takes is irrelevant. He has no agenda with you. None.  He doesn't need sex from you. He doesn't need love from you.  He doesn't need validation from you. What he desires is your choice. To choose him.  And for him that choice is felt when you allow your heart to melt more and more in his presence. He knows that as much as he wants to take you, it's you that must give him the permission to do so freely by your choice to open your heart to him. You see my dear women, it is your choice always.  Every man knows this deep down.  It is you who chooses who to give yourself to and therefore no amount of him prying you open is really what either of you...

Be Careful Who You Hurt

  One day you will realize that the same person is not found twice in life. Not everyone is replaceable. Be careful who you hurt. In this fast-paced, ever-evolving world, we often take relationships for granted. We live in a culture that promotes moving on quickly, finding something or someone new to fill the void. But there comes a moment, often when it’s too late, that you realize certain people are irreplaceable. The unique essence they bring to your life, the way they understand your soul, and the connection you share cannot be duplicated. No matter how many new faces you meet, the bond you had with that one special person—be it a friend, a partner, or even a mentor—was singular. And losing that connection leaves an imprint that no one else can fill. It’s only when they’re gone that the weight of their absence truly sinks in, and the harsh truth hits: the same person does not come twice in a lifetime. We often hurt those closest to us without fully realizing the magnitude of th...

She's Different

This one she's just different. She's different than the rest. She's different, because she's real. She's different, because she's unfiltered, and unguarded. She's different, because she's unafraid -she's unafraid to put herself out there. She's unafraid of being an open book. And she's unafraid to show the world who she truly is. She's different, because she's original. She's different, because she's unique and authentic. She's different, because she mixes craziness with class, and confidence with vulnerability. She's different, because she's wild, and she's funny. She's different, because she's free, she's unbothered, she's unaffected and she doesn't care about your opinion. She's different, because she's in love with who she's becoming, and she's in love with where she's going. This one-she's just different. She's different in so many ways. And if you're luc...

The Beauty in Writing

When she didn't know what else to do, she would write, because to her it was so much more than a blank page to scribble down some words. It was an invitation to let her heart speak. A space where she could express her soul. A faithful friend that would always listen. A portal where she could release her past. A record of a moment that had shaped who she was. An expression of her heart captured in time. A way to reach out to all the people she'd once been. A chance to share glimmers of wisdom from the things that she'd seen. A journey into feeling crafted by her words, an outpouring of love from her heart to theirs. It was her therapy, her healing, her passion and her offering. An alchemical process creating beauty out of suffering 💖 ~ Emily Jane

Cherish the Good Man

  "Some men will walk into your life and change everything for you, give you another reason to live. Keep them close. They'll challenge you in ways you never thought possible, pushing you to be stronger, braver, and more aligned with your true self. These men see the best in you, even when you can't. They remind you of your potential and inspire you to reach for it, giving you the courage to break through limitations you once held as truths. When these men enter your life, they don't just offer companionship, they bring stability. You feel safe in their presence, knowing they'll hold you in moments of weakness without judgment. Their touch, their words, and even their silences offer healing. They don't rush your growth, but patiently walk alongside you as you evolve, supporting you with unwavering faith. These men don't shy away from your complexities; they embrace every layer. They honor your story-the battles you've fought and the dreams you've ye...

The Best Loves

Why You Need to Date Someone Who Scares You “If she doesn’t scare the hell out of you a little, she’s not the one.” At first glance, this meme might seem to be implying that you need to only date emotionally unstable people. But if you sit with it for a moment, it takes on a whole other (and more important) layer of meaning. As much as mainstream media would prefer you to think otherwise, the best relationships are not all sunshine and roses. Relationships are the ultimate vehicle for self-growth… and the best kind of love that you can engage in is the confronting kind. The kind where your partner acts as a mirror to you and they lovingly help pull all of your demons out of you over time. They act as a catalyst for positive growth. They’ll point a flashlight into every corner of your dark mental attic, and illuminate all of the things that you try to hide from the world. And they will illuminate it with love, patience, and compassion. Just when you expect them to run away (after having...

The Rare Man

Some men will walk into your life and change everything for you, give you another reason to live. Keep them close. They’ll challenge you in ways you never thought possible, pushing you to be stronger, braver, and more aligned with your true self. These men see the best in you, even when you can’t. They remind you of your potential and inspire you to reach for it, giving you the courage to break through limitations you once held as truths. When these men enter your life, they don’t just offer companionship, they bring stability. You feel safe in their presence, knowing they’ll hold you in moments of weakness without judgment. Their touch, their words, and even their silences offer healing. They don’t rush your growth, but patiently walk alongside you as you evolve, supporting you with unwavering faith. These men don’t shy away from your complexities; they embrace every layer. They honor your story—the battles you’ve fought and the dreams you’ve yet to pursue. They don’t try to change yo...

They Will Call You

They will call you "cray" because you are, because you were born with the gift of seeing things differently and that scares them. They will call you "intense" because you are, because you were born with the courage well placed to allow you to feel everything to the fullest and that intimidates them. They will call you "selfish" because that's how it is, because you discovered that you are the most important thing in your life and that doesn't suit them. They will call you in many ways, with many judgments, for a long time, but stay firm in yourself and in what you want, and I promise you that one day they will call you to say, "thank you for existing. " ✍️ Frida Kahlo

8 Ways To Strengthen Your Relationship

Love is perhaps our most powerful emotion, and the need to be in a loving relationship may be one of the strongest needs we have. Being in an intimate relationship makes us feel connected, not only to our partner, but also to the world at large. When our hearts are filled with love, we feel profoundly content and satisfied. We become more patient, more empathetic, kinder, gentler. But personal intimacy doesn't merely affect our emotional well-being. According to numerous scientific studies, the power of love directly affects our physical health, too, by boosting our immune system, improving our cardiovascular functioning, and increasing our life expectancy. "Love and intimacy are at the root of what makes us sick and what makes us well," says Dean Ornish, M.D., who explores the connections between love and health in his book Love & Survival (HarperCollins). "When you look at the scientific data, the need for love and intimacy is as important and basic as eating, ...

Now Available: Loving Him is Heaven and Hell

  The mystery of Love, and of the purest sexual connection, is the perfect expression of both desire and generosity. Unity is felt not only in our shared emotional depth, but also in each other's inexhaustible longing to fill and be filled. We tap into this powerful connection with a simple look, the way our hands touch, or lips softly brush against the ear. We now live and move and have our being in each other. That unity embodies many things. It creates and gives breath to our unbreakable emotional bond. It opens a pathway of communication within the very depths of our hearts. It allows us to symbolize and express in the deepest way our safety, adoration, acceptance, and commitment. When we are joined together sexually, we sense our perfect wholeness. It allows us to taste the gift of love. It gives freely and ask nothing in return. Available on Amazon   https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DDQCRY52

Loving Your Soulmate

Love is a beautiful and complex emotion that transcends superficial expectations and checklists. It is a deep connection that goes beyond mere attraction or compatibility. Your soulmate is the person who truly sees you for who you are, flaws and all, and still chooses to love you unconditionally. In a soulmate relationship, love is not just a fleeting feeling, but a profound commitment to the well-being and happiness of your partner. It requires constant effort, understanding, and support. Your soulmate is the one who stands by your side through thick and thin, offering unwavering love and support, even during challenging times. True love is not only about the good days when everything is perfect. It is about being there for each other during the tough times, when stress, anger, anxiety, or disappointment may arise. It is during these moments that the depth of your love and commitment is truly tested. Your soulmate is the person who chooses to love you even when it's difficult, and...

Coming Soon: Loving Him is Heaven and Hell

  COMING SOON TO AMAZON! A collection of love poems dedicated to twin flames, sacred soulmates, and lovers of love. Please click on link to join my email list for book release date, contest, and to learn more about me and the poetry.  https://www.sendfox.com/mysticmadisonmeadows

All Over Again

  She did not betray Her thoughts of him She wrote them all down Tucked safely in a drawer Where years from now She'd rediscover them And relive his memory  All over again

Take It To The Grave

You broke us I did my best To keep our secrets You did your best At avoiding any interaction with me Knowing how it would end Maybe I was the one Too invested But we both had everything to lose The difference between you and me Is I take risks At any cost Not for love dear But for truth Living a lie was eating at my soul I set myself free And dug my own grave at the same time I am in a better place I'd like to think My actions helped you Even if it was just in the smallest way I just wanted you to be happy As you continue to hold tight to your secret I hope you know your secret is safe with me Take it to your grave dear If you like And bury it With all the lovely memories of me

Fictional Love Story

  The words I want to say to you are sitting on my chest.  So many emotions I've carried around with me with no suitable place to go. I'm tired of feeling this way.. Loved but not loved, heard but not validated. There comes a point one gets to when the heavy grief that burdens the heart has to go somewhere.  I've come to that point of longing no more because my heart is numb. Carrying around a hope that one day you'll be real was killing me. This fictional love story is just that.. fiction. A woman needs more then the vague ghostly figure that visits her dreams.  I've been reminded of my value. I've been reminded that there is someone out there longing for a woman like me.. Free spirited,  fun loving, courageous,  and believes in magic. But even in the reminding, I'm left feeling like a piece of me is missing, and knowing in my core, you're the missing piece.  But, these days, I've reclaimed my power.  I choose now to leave that missing piece as a...

Things That Cause Regret At Old Age

  When younger, we make various choice's without the future in mind. Sometimes those choices bite us in our mid-life. These are some of the things one might regret when they're older. 1. Marrying the wrong person When you're young, check your motives for marrying. Don't marry to copy your peers, or for social standing or out of pressure. Marry for love and companionship, marry the right person, marry your best friend. For if you marry the wrong person or for the wrong reasons, you will have to put up with that person the rest of your life. Things might get worse between you two; then depression, physical abuse, affairs, pain, shame, court cases, bitterness will define your mid-life years all because you chose the wrong one. Things will get worse when children are involved. Make the right choice of a spouse when you are young. 2. The opportunities you did not seize When you are younger many doors will open, you will get many chances. Many young people let these opportuni...

The Heart Has Its Own Memory

There was an unspeakable love  That hung in the air Between them She longed to see him again He buried his love In the deep recesses of his soul Little did he know That love can't be forgotten  Not by the heart  The heart has it’s own memory  Memories that then seap into the dreams Of those that are lost But not forgotten 

Choose The Man Who Will Love You Unconditionally

Choose the man who never stops opening up all parts of you. The man who sees your layers and gently, persistently, helps you reveal and embrace each one. His understanding and patience allow you to explore depths within yourself that you never knew existed. Choose the man whose touch takes you to places you didn't know existed. His presence is a catalyst for your personal growth, and his touch is a doorway to new realms of pleasure, comfort, and connection. With him, you discover sensations and emotions that transcend the ordinary, leading to profound experiences. Choose the man whose energy has you aching for more. His vitality and passion ignite a fire within you, inspiring you to live fully and passionately. His energy complements yours, creating a dynamic and exhilarating connection that leaves you wanting more of the beautiful moments you share together. Choose the man who has taken the time to know your body, mind, and spirit. He appreciates every aspect of who you are, valui...

Winter’s Kiss

the fear of him  made her feel alive  winter crawled under her skin she welcomed the feeling something familiar about being alive when cold fingers touch you she couldn't anticipate where it was headed  or how it would end but there was definitely something very familiar  with the way he held her kissed her it woke up in her a silent knowing that he was sunshine and warmth a safe place to just be herself 

The Bridge

"Someone can be madly in love with you. And still not be ready.  They can love you in a way you have never been loved. And still not join you on the bridge. And whatever their reasons you must leave.  Because you never ever have to inspire anyone to meet you on the bridge. You never ever have to convince someone to do the work to be ready.  There is more extraordinary love. More love that you have never seen. Out here in this wide and wild Universe. And there is the love that will be ready.” ( Nayyirah Waheed - 'The Bridge' )

All or Nothing

She is very clear about who she is. She doesn't pretend to be something she's not. What you see is what you get. Don't be surprised if one day she's sweet and kind, but slander her behind her back or let her down in a big way and it's over for you. She won't call. She won't go out of her way for you ever again. She won't pretend that at one time you were friends. You never have to guess how she feels about you. She's clear and to the point. She doesn't waste her time on those who don't see her value and appreciate her heart. She's not good at pretending anything. She's all or nothing. 

The Companion

darling, there's someone out there who is a vibrational match to you. someone who will walk with you on your journey... who knows your pain and even your thoughts before you speak them. when two people are doing the innerwork to heal their wounds and long for transformation,  that's when the divine intervenes and brings the two of you together. don't ever feel you have to do this alone. don't ever think that you're the only one that feels pain. we are all connected... vibrating at different frequencies. darling, just keep doing you, and i promise that your soul friend will show up. your loving thoughts towards yourself will attract him because he's been loving himself and longing for you. life will become so much sweeter and all the burdens you shouldered, you will no longer shoulder alone. the companion is as ancient as a sunset but never sets. a bird resting calmly on the waters of your soul even when the waters are rough. welcome him. cherish him. because lif...

With Eyes Closed

She let him Consume every inch Of her soul Nothing else mattered Death had no grip on her She'd die happily Feeling more alive Than she ever did She could close her eyes And fall into an eternal sleep Knowing that her thoughts of him Were always with her Even with eyes closed

The Let Them Theory

Are you familiar with the “Let Them” theory?   Let them be upset. Let them judge you. Let them misunderstand you.  Let them gossip about you, Let them ignore you. Let them be "right." Let them doubt you. Let them not like you. Let them not speak to you. Let them run your name in the ground. Let them make you out to be the villain. Whatever it is that people want to say about you, let them!  Kindly step aside and LET THEM. The hard truth is they know how much they are hurting you. They just simply don't care. They did it knowing it could cause them to lose you. They did it anyway.  People that love you care about how they make you feel.  The end.  Let them go.  There will be people that would rather lose you than be honest about what they've done to you. Let them go. The lack of respect was the closure.  The lack of apology was the closure.  The lack of care was the closure. The lack of acountability was the closure. The lack of honestly ...

Waterfall

she lay there long enough for her shadow to lengthen and her heart pain paralyzing her mind and body unable to move her eyes waterfalled  as she trembled knowing that in this lifetime  she'd never see him again she'd lay there until she was able to force herself to stand up and will herself to live again