What a time of transition we go through right now, transcending beyond old ways of togetherness.
If we look at the old marriage, there is one word describing so many relationships; control and the power of control, build upon solar plexus energy, vibrating on lower frequency of emotions.
A man and a woman meet with each other, marry, then you would believe, that the best foundation for love has been made, you would believe, that they would live happily ever after, some do, many do not.
Instead they build up ties with each other, they create dependency, addiction, obsession, ties are unhealthy for love to grow and flow.
Often finding more pleasure in buying things, than sharing Love.
There is often a struggle of power between the two of them, the ego desire for control, so instead of loving each other, they keep each other tied up in control, and love dies; control relationships are never build upon love, but upon dependency; the fear of being alone, not being loved, the belief that you are made whole by another human being.
Typically control matter is money; one of them holds the power over the other one, through money.
We know of the rich man marrying a younger woman, they both give each other outer power, he gives her status, she gives him masculine self-worth; as women have now become financial independent, they adopt the cultural status of men, marrying a young man and the scene is vice versa, still to my opinion imbalanced.
Another subject for control is sex, women often use sexual control to hold a man in power of ego desire; when he does certain things for her, she will allow for sexual pleasure; so unhealthy for love to flow.
Now we move from solar plexus emotion into deep feelings of the heart; we meet with Twin Flame Love.
When we meet, we still have the old baggage of control issues with us, we still remember our old ways of relationship, so of course we cannot change our ways of behavior over night, it is a process, in this process be a little gentle with yourself..and your Twin.
In the beginning of Twin Flame love, projection is used, which means one Twin see in the other faults, and believe these faults belong to the other one, while all the time it belongs to her/himself, and can never be described as faults....
Realizing this is an important step towards wholeness.
In meeting with your Twin Flame you will use, what you have learned in your old relationship, which is control, trying to hold control over the other one, checking up on the other one, being jealous, setting rules; all of the old ways will come to the surface to be cleared away.
That is why your Divine Guides give you separation times, to clear the old control baggage, clear the old lower ego emotions away; so treasure your separation times, for they are a true gift for both you and your Twin; do not feel sad, do not cry, do not cling to the other one, let the other one grow, give space for true love to grow.
In these separation times many seek a soul mate relationship, which I personally do not favor, for there is a risk, that you just transfer your old ways, instead of dissolving them and carry on with the control game of power; I know of course, that some also grow in soul mate relationships.
I believe that we have chosen times of solitude to grow into oneness with God in ourselves, for then we can share oneness in God with our Twin, being complete and whole; there is nothing wrong with being alone, for you do not have to feel lonely, you can in fact feel very happy and complete being with yourself, for you learn to love every aspect of yourself.
Your purpose is to meet with your Twin Flame, and many do, but it is also for your completeness, for in your completeness you can smelt into Divine Oneness with your inner Twin.. and then meet physically with your Twin Love and share the most amazing love story ever told in time.
Be happy for your blessed Twin Flame journey, look at yourself without judgment, love and embrace yourself, understand the process of leaving behind solar plexus emotions, surrender to your Sacred Heart.
In this process you are never alone, for your Twin Flame is always there is your heart to embrace and love you with Divine Love.
And notice, that you can never really be angry with your Twin Flame Love, no matter what happens, for the relationship is build upon pure love .. and it is not something bad, if your Twin Flame also loves others.
