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When a Man Shows Up

A lot of people ask what men truly want, and the answer is really simple. A woman can’t fully honor and appreciate a man’s efforts if she doesn’t feel safe and secure with him. This is something we all need to understand. When a man creates that sense of safety, she will naturally give back love, care, and respect. When a man takes responsibility and shows up with honesty, he creates a space where his partner feels protected. This is what allows her to open up, to trust, and to love fully. She feels safe, not just physically, but emotionally too. And when a woman feels secure, she will treat her partner with admiration and kindness. She will see him as her rock, someone she can count on. It’s not about controlling the relationship or demanding respect. It’s about doing what’s right, being there for each other in both the good and tough times. When a man does that, he earns his partner’s love in a way that’s real and deep. She will honor him because she knows he’s got her back. Men ofte...

Unanswered Goodbyes

There’s a unique kind of pain in a goodbye that’s never spoken. It’s not the parting itself that lingers but the silence that follows—the questions left unanswered, the moments unresolved. These farewells, steeped in ambiguity, leave us suspended in a haze of emotions, caught between what was and what could have been. The absence of explanation becomes its own ache, an invisible weight that follows us. Yet within this discomfort lies an invitation—not just to grieve but to grow. Life rarely gives us the closure we crave. The human heart longs for certainty, for neat conclusions that allow us to move forward without hesitation. We seek reasons, hoping that clarity will somehow ease the pain. But when someone leaves without explanation, the narrative is left open-ended, and the mind races to fill the void. We replay conversations, reexamine memories, and question ourselves endlessly. Was it something we said or didn’t say? Was it avoidable? Could things have been different? Yet the truth...

Procrastination

Procrastination is not the absence of will—it’s the presence of pain, a quiet signal of a battle fought in silence. It’s not laziness; it’s the weight of an invisible storm pressing on the soul, a resistance born not from boredom but from unspoken wounds.   We procrastinate not because we don’t care but because we care so deeply that it immobilizes us. Each delayed task whispers a fear of failure, perfectionism masked as avoidance, or the simple exhaustion of a spirit too weary to carry the load. Procrastination is the heart’s way of pausing, asking, “Are you sure we’re ready for this?.” But here’s the breathtaking truth: it transforms once you meet it with understanding instead of judgment. Like a river unblocked, the energy that procrastination held captive begins to flow. It reveals that the time you thought you were wasting was time spent holding space for your own healing.   And then, almost like magic, it dissolves—not through force, but through love. You awake...

Be the Steady Hand

Ernest Hemingway once said: In our darkest moments, we don’t need solutions or advice. What we yearn for is simply human connection—a quiet presence, a gentle touch. These small gestures are the anchors that hold us steady when life feels like too much. Please don’t try to fix me. Don’t take on my pain or push away my shadows. Just sit beside me as I work through my own inner storms. Be the steady hand I can reach for as I find my way. My pain is mine to carry, my battles mine to face. But your presence reminds me I’m not alone in this vast, sometimes frightening world. It’s a quiet reminder that I am worthy of love, even when I feel broken. So, in those dark hours when I lose my way, will you just be here? Not as a rescuer, but as a companion. Hold my hand until the dawn arrives, helping me remember my strength. Your silent support is the most precious gift you can give. It’s a love that helps me remember who I am, even when I forget.

It’s the Feminine That Leads a Relationship

  It’s the feminine that actually leads a relationship (in the subtle)... For anyone who has touched the polarity world You’d know That the masculine leads. That’s what they tell you right It’s up to the man to lead To take charge To have direction And for the feminine For the woman… She is in an unending state of surrender. Just simply waiting for him to know Exactly where they need to go. I think whoever came up with this teaching doesn’t really know much about women at all. It paints a sexy picture... The sweet receptive feminine And the brash confident masculine With their incredible electric polarity The stuff of movies And our wildest erotic fantasies Like all archetypal stories… it’s a myth It’s an ideal that can teach us something But it’s not really real. Anyone who tries to live this to the letter Is in for an unpleasant surprise Because that’s not how relationships actually work... Most women aren’t just waiting around Trusting him to know everything Offering up every bi...

What Every Women Should Understand

  1. Your biggest enemy is yourself. That enemy is the one who makes you overthink, develop a low self-esteem, make you emotionally unstable and give you headache. Love yourself from the inside first before you expect love from the outside. 2. You are not in a relationship with a man until you both clearly state it.  Don't get carried away by the idea of love with a man simply because he spends time with you or treats you special. 3. If you are in a relationship or marriage, demanding your man to spend time with you will not make him do so.  A man willingly spends time with you because you give him peace and he enjoys your company. Attract him the same way you peacefully and warmly attracted him when he was pursuing you. 4. Mr.  Right is the man who offers a conducive environment for you to be the best you. Choose your environment well. 5. Your husband will never find you if you keep fooling around with other women's husbands. 6. Mr.  Right can also hurt you. Th...

An Evolved Man

An evolved man will not try to pry your heart open or penetrate you with his masculine presence in bed or out of it. He will create a space for you to slowly blossom open. He is in no hurry to see what every petal looks like, smells like, tastes like... He needs nothing from you to fill his being so to him, however long it takes is irrelevant. He has no agenda with you. None.  He doesn't need sex from you. He doesn't need love from you.  He doesn't need validation from you. What he desires is your choice. To choose him.  And for him that choice is felt when you allow your heart to melt more and more in his presence. He knows that as much as he wants to take you, it's you that must give him the permission to do so freely by your choice to open your heart to him. You see my dear women, it is your choice always.  Every man knows this deep down.  It is you who chooses who to give yourself to and therefore no amount of him prying you open is really what either of you...

Be Careful Who You Hurt

  One day you will realize that the same person is not found twice in life. Not everyone is replaceable. Be careful who you hurt. In this fast-paced, ever-evolving world, we often take relationships for granted. We live in a culture that promotes moving on quickly, finding something or someone new to fill the void. But there comes a moment, often when it’s too late, that you realize certain people are irreplaceable. The unique essence they bring to your life, the way they understand your soul, and the connection you share cannot be duplicated. No matter how many new faces you meet, the bond you had with that one special person—be it a friend, a partner, or even a mentor—was singular. And losing that connection leaves an imprint that no one else can fill. It’s only when they’re gone that the weight of their absence truly sinks in, and the harsh truth hits: the same person does not come twice in a lifetime. We often hurt those closest to us without fully realizing the magnitude of th...