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An Evolved Man

An evolved man will not try to pry your heart open or penetrate you with his masculine presence in bed or out of it. He will create a space for you to slowly blossom open. He is in no hurry to see what every petal looks like, smells like, tastes like... He needs nothing from you to fill his being so to him, however long it takes is irrelevant. He has no agenda with you. None.  He doesn't need sex from you. He doesn't need love from you.  He doesn't need validation from you. What he desires is your choice. To choose him.  And for him that choice is felt when you allow your heart to melt more and more in his presence. He knows that as much as he wants to take you, it's you that must give him the permission to do so freely by your choice to open your heart to him. You see my dear women, it is your choice always.  Every man knows this deep down.  It is you who chooses who to give yourself to and therefore no amount of him prying you open is really what either of you...

Be Careful Who You Hurt

  One day you will realize that the same person is not found twice in life. Not everyone is replaceable. Be careful who you hurt. In this fast-paced, ever-evolving world, we often take relationships for granted. We live in a culture that promotes moving on quickly, finding something or someone new to fill the void. But there comes a moment, often when it’s too late, that you realize certain people are irreplaceable. The unique essence they bring to your life, the way they understand your soul, and the connection you share cannot be duplicated. No matter how many new faces you meet, the bond you had with that one special person—be it a friend, a partner, or even a mentor—was singular. And losing that connection leaves an imprint that no one else can fill. It’s only when they’re gone that the weight of their absence truly sinks in, and the harsh truth hits: the same person does not come twice in a lifetime. We often hurt those closest to us without fully realizing the magnitude of th...

She's Different

This one she's just different. She's different than the rest. She's different, because she's real. She's different, because she's unfiltered, and unguarded. She's different, because she's unafraid -she's unafraid to put herself out there. She's unafraid of being an open book. And she's unafraid to show the world who she truly is. She's different, because she's original. She's different, because she's unique and authentic. She's different, because she mixes craziness with class, and confidence with vulnerability. She's different, because she's wild, and she's funny. She's different, because she's free, she's unbothered, she's unaffected and she doesn't care about your opinion. She's different, because she's in love with who she's becoming, and she's in love with where she's going. This one-she's just different. She's different in so many ways. And if you're luc...

The Beauty in Writing

When she didn't know what else to do, she would write, because to her it was so much more than a blank page to scribble down some words. It was an invitation to let her heart speak. A space where she could express her soul. A faithful friend that would always listen. A portal where she could release her past. A record of a moment that had shaped who she was. An expression of her heart captured in time. A way to reach out to all the people she'd once been. A chance to share glimmers of wisdom from the things that she'd seen. A journey into feeling crafted by her words, an outpouring of love from her heart to theirs. It was her therapy, her healing, her passion and her offering. An alchemical process creating beauty out of suffering 💖 ~ Emily Jane

Cherish the Good Man

  "Some men will walk into your life and change everything for you, give you another reason to live. Keep them close. They'll challenge you in ways you never thought possible, pushing you to be stronger, braver, and more aligned with your true self. These men see the best in you, even when you can't. They remind you of your potential and inspire you to reach for it, giving you the courage to break through limitations you once held as truths. When these men enter your life, they don't just offer companionship, they bring stability. You feel safe in their presence, knowing they'll hold you in moments of weakness without judgment. Their touch, their words, and even their silences offer healing. They don't rush your growth, but patiently walk alongside you as you evolve, supporting you with unwavering faith. These men don't shy away from your complexities; they embrace every layer. They honor your story-the battles you've fought and the dreams you've ye...

The Best Loves

Why You Need to Date Someone Who Scares You “If she doesn’t scare the hell out of you a little, she’s not the one.” At first glance, this meme might seem to be implying that you need to only date emotionally unstable people. But if you sit with it for a moment, it takes on a whole other (and more important) layer of meaning. As much as mainstream media would prefer you to think otherwise, the best relationships are not all sunshine and roses. Relationships are the ultimate vehicle for self-growth… and the best kind of love that you can engage in is the confronting kind. The kind where your partner acts as a mirror to you and they lovingly help pull all of your demons out of you over time. They act as a catalyst for positive growth. They’ll point a flashlight into every corner of your dark mental attic, and illuminate all of the things that you try to hide from the world. And they will illuminate it with love, patience, and compassion. Just when you expect them to run away (after having...

The Rare Man

Some men will walk into your life and change everything for you, give you another reason to live. Keep them close. They’ll challenge you in ways you never thought possible, pushing you to be stronger, braver, and more aligned with your true self. These men see the best in you, even when you can’t. They remind you of your potential and inspire you to reach for it, giving you the courage to break through limitations you once held as truths. When these men enter your life, they don’t just offer companionship, they bring stability. You feel safe in their presence, knowing they’ll hold you in moments of weakness without judgment. Their touch, their words, and even their silences offer healing. They don’t rush your growth, but patiently walk alongside you as you evolve, supporting you with unwavering faith. These men don’t shy away from your complexities; they embrace every layer. They honor your story—the battles you’ve fought and the dreams you’ve yet to pursue. They don’t try to change yo...

They Will Call You

They will call you "cray" because you are, because you were born with the gift of seeing things differently and that scares them. They will call you "intense" because you are, because you were born with the courage well placed to allow you to feel everything to the fullest and that intimidates them. They will call you "selfish" because that's how it is, because you discovered that you are the most important thing in your life and that doesn't suit them. They will call you in many ways, with many judgments, for a long time, but stay firm in yourself and in what you want, and I promise you that one day they will call you to say, "thank you for existing. " ✍️ Frida Kahlo