Prioritise the Uniqueness that Makes You You

Don’t prioritise your looks my friend, as they won’t last the journey.

Your sense of humour though, will only get better with age.

Your intuition will grow and expand like a majestic cloak of wisdom.

Your ability to choose your battles, will be fine-tuned to perfection.

Your capacity for stillness, for living in the moment, will blossom.

Your desire to live each and every moment will transcend all other wants.

Your instinct for knowing what (and who) is worth your time, will grow and flourish like ivy on a castle wall.

Don’t prioritise your looks my friend,

they will change forevermore, that pursuit is one of much sadness and disappointment.

Prioritise the uniqueness that make you you, and the invisible magnet that draws in other like-minded souls to dance in your orbit.

These are the things which will only get better.

( Donna Ashworth )

A Thousand Matchsticks

his energy

was like a thousand matchsticks

to my body 

he didn't need to physically 

touch me

for me to come to life

his words alone

grabbing me

as i imagined myself 

clinging to his body

My Story: The Gift of Scott

Unexpectedly, I met Scott, a sacred soulmate/great love/soul brother. He showed up at the perfect time when I wasn't looking for a relationship. And in three short months changed my life. For years, I lived with depression and this man, that just appears out of nowhere, leaves his imprint on my soul by gifting me with unconditional love and healing my mind, body, and soul.

Scott ignited my rootfire and heartfire... a burning I had not felt since my twinflame. I wanted him near me.. so I could soul gaze into his eyes. This was what I always desired with a partner and here he was willing and ready.

I gave him an invitation into an opening of myself that invited him into my most sacred, vulnerable parts that no one has ever seen. I gave him permission to enter and told him I was willing to be hurt by him.

But the Cosmos had to throw a wrench into our plans. Our meeting would not happen. And even though I got to know him for a brief second, he changed my life, helped heal my depression. I will always be eternally grateful for his unselfish act of kindness. 

What I've learned on my journey thus far is this... keeping your heart open after it's been ravished, torn, and beaten all to hell is the secret to a happy life. When you remain open to love, love will always find you.  And who knows...maybe one day a great love will come back around again. 

You Can Make it Through Anything

If I’ve learned anything from life,

it’s that sometimes, the darkest times can bring us to the brightest places.

I’ve learned that the most toxic people can teach us the most important lessons;

that our most painful struggles can grant us the most necessary growth;

and that the most heartbreaking losses of friendship and love can make room for the most wonderful people.

I’ve learned that what seems like a curse in the moment can actually be a blessing,

and that what seems like the end of the road is actually just the discovery that we are meant to travel down a different path.

I’ve learned that no matter how difficult things seem, there is always hope.

And I’ve learned that no matter how powerless we feel or how horrible things seem,

we can’t give up.

We have to keep going.

Even when it’s scary,

even when all of our strength seems gone,

we have to keep picking ourselves back up and moving forward,

because whatever we’re battling in the moment,

it will pass, and we will make it through.

We’ve made it this far.

We can make it through whatever comes next.

~Serenity Ravinwolve 

Sacred Divine Feminine

https://EmpowerWholeness.com

A Good Crazy

the roads in me

are quiet now

you left so suddenly 

i was use to the rush

you made me feel

i'm not embarrassed

to say

how you made me feel

your energy

drove me crazy 

a good crazy 

i can only imagine 

what it would be like

if you and i had been together 

there will always 

be that hope

you and  i will

find the road

that connects us

together again 

maybe all roads

lead back to you love

Conscious Relationships

"We are approaching a period of time when relationships are ready to go through a major redesign. The current paradigm isn’t working. People are unsatisfied in love; people don’t know how to make relationships work.

And, believe it or not, this isn’t a bad thing. Because when systems break-down, that’s when they change. I believe that’s what’s happening in the area of intimate partnership. The break-down is forcing us to move towards conscious love.

So what exactly is a conscious relationship?

It's a romantic relationship in which both partners feel committed to a sense of purpose, and that purpose is growth. Individual growth. Collective growth as a couple. Growth that makes the world a better place.

As of now, most people get into relationships to satisfy their own personal needs. This might work for a few years, but eventually the relationship fails us, and we end up unsatisfied as a result.

But when two people come together with the intention of growth, the relationship strives towards something much greater than gratification. The partnership becomes a journey of evolution, and the two individuals have an opportunity to expand more than they could alone. Deep satisfaction and long-term fulfillment arise as a result.

So if you’re someone who feels called to take your experience of romantic love to the next level, below are four qualities that characterize what being a conscious couple is all about. Welcome to the path of the conscious relationship. This is next-level love ...

1. The conscious couple is not attached to the outcome of the relationship - growth comes first.

Not being attached to the outcome of the relationship does not mean you don’t care what happens! It also doesn’t mean that you don’t have fantasies about how the relationship will turn out.

What it means is: you’re more committed to the experience of growth than you are to making the relationship “work.”

The reality is, we’re here to grow. Physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. When growth stops, we automatically feel like something’s gone wrong. Because it has. Without growth, we aren’t fulfilling our soul’s purpose.

Unfortunately, relationships today tend to stifle growth more than enhance it. This is one of the main reasons we’re failing at romantic love.

We want our partners to act in a certain way, we repress ourselves to please others, and soon enough, we feel small, oppressed and puzzled about who we’ve become. This, inevitably, makes the relationship feel like a cage that we want to break out of. But the unfortunate truth is: we’ve caged ourselves.

The conscious couple values growth more than anything else because they know this is the secret to keeping the relationship alive. Even though growth is scary (because it takes us into the unknown), the couple is willing to strive towards expansion, even at the risk of out-growing the relationship. Because of this, the relationship maintains a natural feeling of aliveness, and love between the couple does, too.

2. Each person in the relationship is committed to owning their s#*t.

Conscious couples know that we all have wounds from the past, and they understand that these wounds will inevitably be triggered, especially in a relationship. In other words, they expect to feel abandoned, trapped, rejected, overlooked and any other shitty feeling that arises when we bond closely with another person.

Most of us still believe that relationships should only feel good, and when bad feelings surface, something has gone terribly wrong. What we fail to see in this situation is that these shitty feelings stem from our own faulty patterning! These issues are not caused by our partners; they’re caused by our beliefs.

The conscious couple is willing to look at their past and current issues in relationships because they know that by facing these beliefs systems, they can evolve into a new relationship-reality. Dysfunctional patterns will dissolve, but only when we take responsibility for them, first.

3. All feelings are welcome and no internal process is condemned.

In a conscious relationship, there’s room to feel anything. Not only that, there’s room to express those feelings and fantasies to your partner. This is edgy territory… it’s not easy to do. But it’s also one of the most healing things we can experience in a partnership.

It’s rare to be completely honest about who you are, and to stretch yourself to let your partner do the same. You may not like what you hear; in fact, it may trigger the hell out of you. But you’re willing to be triggered if it means your partner can be authentic.

Like I already said, we’re used to molding and changing ourselves to please people we love because we don’t want them to stop loving us! This stifles the love out of our connections.

The only option is radical honesty: revealing parts of ourselves that are hard to share, and letting our partners do the same. This leads to feeling known, seen and truly understood — a combination that will automatically enhance your love.

4. The relationship is a place to practice love.

Love, ultimately, is a practice. A practice of acceptance, being present, forgiveness, and stretching your heart into vulnerable territories.

Sometimes we treat love like it’s a destination. We want that peak feeling all the time, and when it’s not there, we’re not satisfied with what the relationship has become. In my mind, this is missing the whole point of love.

Love is a journey and an exploration. It’s showing up for all varied nuances of your relationship and asking yourself, What would love do here?” The answer will be different every time, and because of this, you’ll get to grow in ways you never have before!

The conscious couple is fiercely committed to being the embodiment of love. And through their devotion and practice, love shows up in their lives and relationship in ways they would’ve never imagined before."

~ Shelly Bullard, MFT

Loving a Woman Empath

The Awakened  man is taking off his armour in order to communicate his feelings and understand the value of his own emotions.

He is conscious of the separation that has existed between the mind and the heart and is listening to his inner voice.

He is aware of the illusions of ego 

and chooses to live authentically, always accountable for his actions.

Blessing you my brothers.

Dear Men. 

If you Love  an Empath , Love them Honestly, and with all your heart."

Empaths don't take love lightly, they don't pretend. When they really chose to open their hearts to you, then expect to be blown away.

Their love is intense, powerful, messy and sometimes difficult to deal with, but it is real.

Empaths don't know how to love any other way.

An empath is someone who is very sensitive to people's Energy , Moods , Emotions , Situations  and their  Environment to the point where they can feel emotions as if they were theirs.

They also have some psychic ability to ′′ know ′′ things without proof of it. A little mysterious and complex, their emotions are deep, but what lies below the surface is a world that is unique to him.

When you look into the eyes of an empath who opened their heart, you see Vulnerability , Honesty , Pain , Dreams, Happiness , Love 

With these thoughts, ideas, emotions, desires flown over, not everyone can be in a relationship with an empath. 

Nothing keeps an empath away more than if you try to change his sensitivity and empathic abilities.

Empaths are different from the majority of people we know.

They are Sensitive , Intuitive  and Compassionate. They cry and see beauty everywhere. They feel the pain of others. 

They need the person they love to be honest.  

They feel all the dishonesty in the world, and need shelter from it.  

Dishonesty does not work for an empath. 

Even if they are never meant to discover the deception, they will feel it. It's torture for them to know that we're doing something behind their back and not getting a direct response. 

Be honest and sincere. 

In cages they will cause damage. 

They are like birds, they must be able to fly freely to where their emotions guide them.

Cageing them is cutting their wings. 

They will lose the light that guides their way if you try to control them.

If this happens, they will stop opening up and they will hide the love they have to give deep enough in them.

Damage is not easily fixed, but it can be avoided by not trying to cage it.

The empath you love has probably been heartbroken in her life and needs to be treated with sensitivity regarding the pace where things go between you two.

Don't rush it.

You  also need to let them spend time alone. Empaths need to recharge in a space that is unique to them. It's different for everyone but they need time to be alone. 

It can be tiring to always feel the energy of the people around us, please don't be embarrassed or bored when they need to recharge.

This doesn't mean they don't like you or they don't like your company. This means they have to calm their minds and renew their energy. 

They will come back happier than before.

They often can't express how they feel. 

The emotions of an empath are incredibly complex.

To the point that they struggle to express how they feel. Give them space. Be understanding.

Take seriously what they say.

Empaths are extremely creative people. There's always an idea that pops up from their minds.

Take them seriously.

Believe in them, even though the idea may seem crazy to you. Empaths, probably more than anyone, have the ability to truly change the world. 

Listen to them when they open their hearts to you. Because somewhere between their enthusiasm, passion, and the words they use mix, something quite amazing is about to be created. 

Empaths tend to be pretty wise people. 

They don't say it, but they feel everything so deeply that it comes naturally to them.

If they are exceptionally intense, give them some space. If they need you, stay close.

Their intuition is usually good.

Contrary to popular belief, they actually know what they're talking about. They are empathetic and they feel everything.

So when they have a good feeling about something, trust them.

When they think someone is lying, trust them.

When they tell you about a dream because it touched their hearts, trust them.

When they tell you a situation is not right, believe them.  

They see the past, future and present all at once.

Trusting an empath in your life is showing life that you believe in it.

This will lead the way.

Being an Empath is a Superpower- 

You Feel Because you came here to Heal. 

Creator and Author ✍️ 

Mike Harrigan.