You will be confused, at first it will seem selfless or not very intense. You would think there's something off about him, or that you're not the center of his attention.
When a sane man comes to you, he's not going to put you in a state of delirium and demand, he won't demand attention and he won't harass and control you.
When you attract a healthy man, they will have some things in common, but he's not going to make the effort to love you and be nice all the time, he's going to show for himself.
When a healthy man comes to you, he shares his peace and calm with you, he includes you in his life without training you and he respects your time.
He will show you who he is instantly, the masks won’t come off after a few months that will confuse you.
He will not waste space, he will listen to your silences and know your cycles.
When you attract a healthy man, only then will you know you’ve broken the repetitive pattern of attracting toxicity and violence, and you’ll know you’ve healed what was broken inside you.
Wish you all the things you deserve.
~ Author Unknown
