If you need someone to be happy, that's not love.
IT IS LACK.
If you are jealous, insecure and do anything to keep someone by your side, even knowing that you are not loved, and you say that you believe in that person, but not in others, who seem like rivals to you, that is not love.
IT IS LACK OF SELF LOVE.
If you think your life is empty without that person; You can't imagine yourself alone and you maintain a relationship that ended just because you don't have a life of your own, that's not love.
IT IS DEPENDENCE.
If you think that the loved one belongs to you; you feel master and owner of his life and his body; You don't give him the opportunity to express himself, to make up his mind, just to assert your dominance, that's not love.
IT IS SELFISH.
If you don't want it; you do not fulfill yourself as a man or woman with this person; you prefer not to have intimate relations with that person, however, you feel some pleasure in being by their side, that is not love.
IT'S FRIENDSHIP.
If they argue for any reason; they are dying of jealousy of each other; they don't always make the same plans; they lack agreement in various situations; they don't like to do the same things or go to the same places, but there is a desire to be intimately together, that is not love.
IT IS DESIRE.
If your heart beats stronger; the sweat becomes intense, your temperature goes up and down dizzyingly, just thinking about the other person, that is not love.
IT IS PASSION.
Now that you know what love is not…
It is easier to analyze what is happening with you and try to resolve the situation or program yourself to attract someone for whom you feel "true love" that feeling of affection, passion, intimacy and genuine commitment; feeling of emotional and sexual attraction that you have towards a person, and that this person also feels the same for you, so that they can build a balanced relationship, based on true love...Bali
