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How to Love a Woman

  A LETTER TO MEN. Forget trying to figure her out. She is beyond your mind. She is a sweet mystery. Allow her to be that and she will shine more brightly. She doesn't need to be understood with your mind. Just love her. Feel her heart not just her body. You will find an infinite river of surprises and delights of endless wonder. Tell her something sweet every day. You will be amazed at what she gives you back in return. You will never be able to out-give her. Her heart is vast like the ocean itself. So don't be cheap with her. Give her all you've got. And she will give you more than you could ever imagine. When she opens and lets you into her being, tread with care and tenderness. Her heart is a sacred universe and her body is a temple that you are blessed to worship inside. She will reveal to you the magic of the moment. Yes, appreciate her beauty but remember she is so much more. The real essence of woman is beyond physical. She exists as a formless dance. Meet her ther...

Worth the Trouble

  She wonders if she's worth the trouble She's been told She's complicated  And always showing him Who she is With her rebellious spirit  And untamed nature She wonders why being herself Is a problem  And why he still holds on to her 

The Twin Flame Journey: Purpose

The purpose of a twin flame relationship is to awaken you to your untapped potential and ignite a fire deep inside you. This relationship pushes you to do and be better, and at the end of the day, it opens up a world of possibilities you never even dreamed of. “This journey demands spiritual growth,.. twin flame journey is to bring unconditional love into the world, to heal old wounds and traumas, remove karma, and to raise the vibration of humanity so that humans can ‘ascend’ to the ‘new Earth’. At its heart is an emphasis on unconditional love and healing for the self, which is then reflected within the joint energies of the twins once they attain sacred ‘Union’. The work doesn’t stop once you reach union. Often twins have a spiritual mission, either jointly or spiritually, and many are feeling the call to step up and serve others. Currently, there is an unprecedented number of twins awakening to their spiritual path. This is coming in several waves, with some approaching union ra...

Fill Yourself Up First

  Dear self, What if during the times when you felt the most abandoned and lonely You discovered that you were also the most free and unburdened? What if during the times when you felt the most rejected and unwanted You discovered how to fully love, nurture and embrace yourself? What if the newfound space left by their absence Allowed for you to create and form new beautiful things That were a better fit for you? What if when you felt unheard and unseen  You viewed it as an opportunity to value your own voice and presence  And speak elsewhere in spaces capable of appreciating you  What if you stopped comparing your progress to others And becoming distracted by their accomplishments and achievements And instead focused on your own path, goals and personal definition of success As no one can be a better them than them And no one can be a better you than you? What if you viewed momentary failures As stepping stones directing you towards your final destination? What if r...

My Twin Flame Journey- Taking Risks

  Dear Invisible Lover, I want you to know that you were the inspiration for my blog. In the beginning, when I was completely love-struck by you, I didn't know if we would ever get the opportunity to know each other. In 2010, when I started my blog, we both were married and started families of our own. I remember praying about it because you were so heavily on my mind and in my heart. I felt such a strong connection to you.. I was dreaming of you often and it began to feel like I was a part of your life, but in a way that isn't dictated by normal everyday reality. I felt such a strong inner pull guiding me to share myself with you in a way that could be tangible.. Where you could know me intimately. And my back thought was there would never be an opportunity for us to know each other. Crazy that I also believed you would be scared away once you read about me and really got to know me.. I thought you'd run in the other direction. I thought you'd think this c...

A Mouthful of Forevers

  "I am not the first person you loved. You are not the first person I looked at with a mouthful of forevers. We have both known loss like the sharp edges of a knife. We have both lived with lips more scar tissue than skin. Our love came unannounced in the middle of the night. Our love came when we’d given up on asking love to come. I think that has to be part of its miracle. This is how we heal. I will kiss you like forgiveness. You will hold me like I’m hope. Our arms will bandage and we will press promises between us like flowers in a book. I will write sonnets to the salt of sweat on your skin. I will write novels to the scar of your nose. I will write a dictionary of all the words I have used trying to describe the way it feels to have finally, finally found you. And I will not be afraid of your scars. I know sometimes it’s still hard to let me see you in all your cracked perfection, but please know: whether it’s the days you burn more brilliant than the sun or the nights you...

It Doesn't Interest Me

"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive. It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the centre of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain. I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it, or fade it, or fix it. I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own; if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, be realistic, remember the limitations of being human. It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can...

Comfortable With Uncomfortable

  She's learned to be comfortable with uncomfortable.  She's learned to be okay with not always succeeding when you're doing your best. She's learned, the hard way, that life isn't fair but it gives back what you put into it. She's fallen many times, and each time she gets back up. She knows if you don't get back up, you've already failed. She knows by pushing forward, in the direction of her dreams, she's one step closer to achieving them. Through heartache, perseverance,  and sheer determination she is her own hero. That's what life has taught her... Not to wait for a knight in shining armor. But by being courageous and picking up your own sword and by going after what you really want in life... Your destiny awaits you.