people can break you. abusive men and women can permanently change you and leave you with wounds that you'll wear the rest of your life. don't believe anyone that says you'll heal and feel whole again. the truth is you'll spend every day for the rest of your life healing your heart. people hurt others, some unintentionally, others intentionally with malice. when you break the pattern of choosing unconscious men or women as partners and friends, you can begin to build the life and relationships you desire. but this doesn't come easy. it takes effort and commitment to better yourself. you must know your inner state and become cognizant of your soul, otherwise life will seem cruel and unkind. if you commit to working on yourself, your life will change for the better. don't play the victim. conquer yourself, belong to yourself, love yourself and watch your world transform and magic happen.