if the person you are yelling at doesn't listen to you, chances are he doesn't love you. his ability to feel and handle emotions is limited. his capacity to nurture you when you need him the most and his willingness to listen to your pain is next to zero. darling, don't you deserve a man who's emotionally mature and knows how to handle your inner fires? a man that knows how to heal your wounds because he loves you, i mean really loves you? not this fake love that turns his back on you and destroys a piece of you every time things get heated. real love dissolves hate. real love diminishes fear.