Stop thinking she breaks easily.
Not everything which shatters is fragile or frail. She isn’t delicate.
She wasn’t torn apart by something minor.
The most valuable things endure.
Only the priceless survives.
Be gentle because she’s hard on herself.
Treat her carefully because others
have been so careless.
Give reassurance freely
because it costs nothing.
Fear of abandonment is still real
even when all you’ve known is doing it alone. Bring your resolve.
She’s tired of temporary, flimsy.
And people who flee
at the first sign of adversity.
Maybe a reason why her pain runs deep
is because she doesn’t exist on the surface. Her emotions have roots.
Her love is wholehearted.
The most tender people are rarely given the opportunity to be anything other than domineering.
Be sturdy, steadfast,
and give her space to be soft.
Give her room to relax.
Feel the knots in her chest loosen
and see someone who never had a choice
but to be strong.
~ J. Raymond